Join Dafna Lender for A New Monthly Series

Join us to pause, ground yourself, and focus on taking constructive action.

Parenthood often brings otherwise competent people to their knees as they try to deal with the frustrating behaviors or strained relationship with their child. There is nothing more painful than feeling resentful, hopeless, helpless or depressed when it comes to your parent identity. Perhaps you have already read many parenting books and vowed that you would not react negatively towards your child. Or perhaps your teenager is painfully rejecting you and you vacillate between trying your hardest to be kind and crying or screaming, making things even worse. Or perhaps you feel like your child is ruining your life as he behaves in a destructive or dangerous manner and you feel frightened or out of control.

In these instances, it is helpful to take time to look at the dynamics from an attachment and trauma perspective. From these perspectives, you can find new insights and techniques that will help to understand yourself and your child better, so that you can have a more peaceful and connected relationship. 

This program is open to all people who interact with children whether that’s being a parent, guardian, or working with them in your professional career. 

2023 Dates will be published soon!

All sessions take place 12:30 pm ET – 1:30 pm ET. Recordings are available for all registered participants.

  • Session 1 – How to regulate a child who is acting silly/chaotic
  • Session 2 – How to provide a sense of organization and structure for a child
  • Session 3  – How to regulate your reaction to your child
  • Session 4 – How to respond to a child’s nonverbal signals
  • Session 5 – How to deal with aggression and out of control behaviors
  • Session 6 – How to validate a child’s feelings
  • Session 7 – How to handle problem behaviors like a sore loser, a child who lies, steal

Dafna Lender

Dafna Lender is a child and family therapist with over 20 years of experience. She is a certified trainer, supervisor, and consultant in Theraplay® and Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, and coauthor of Theraplay: The Practitioner’s Guide. Dafna has successfully treated children and their parents with a variety of backgrounds, including children raised in orphanages, with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder, exposed to domestic violence and community violence and children of parents with chronic mental illness and attachment wounds. Dafna provides trainings and consultations for psychologists and psychotherapists around the world.

How to Give Grounding Touch

 by Dafna Lender